Good nutrition is different for everyone.
Apart from there being differences in actual belief around the specifics of what is good nutrition, there are also differences in how far various people are willing to go to achieve good health.
- Some people absolutely love chasing optimal health and are willing to do just about anything to achieve it – even if it means meticulously counting calories, growing their own food from scratch, never eating a gram of added sugar again, and spending countless hours in the gym.
- Others, on the other hand, want to do as little as possible to just be a little bit healthier than they are now – for them being healthy is seen as an inconvenience or annoyance and they are looking for the shortcuts and minimum effective doses.
Most likely you (like us) are somewhere in between these two extremes.
You are willing to put in the time and effort to live a fitter and healthier life as long as it’s simple, reasonable, and easy to do. You may even enjoy it living a fit and healthy life, but there are other things in life that you enjoy as well (such as yummy food).
It’s up to you, as an individual, to decide how big a part of your life you want a healthy lifestyle to be. But since Sleekgeek is about living a healthier and fitter life, we expect you to at least make eating healthy foods more of a priority than not.
Many people beginning their health and fitness journey look around at what their friends and family are eating and think that it’s unfair those people can eat junk food all the time. In fact, I remember when I first started my own journey I actually felt a bit resentful about it, because I felt almost entitled to my daily sweets and chocolate. Eating healthily to achieve my goals in the face of temptation and the “norm” was definitely a huge challenge that I had to overcome. Although, thankfully, over time it became easier to do and now I truly enjoy pretty much every healthy thing that I eat, as well as the occasional treat.
As they say, “To achieve what others won’t, you have to do what others don’t“.
That’s why we like the 90/10 Rule that we recommended alongside the official Sleekgeek Food List.
Applying The 90/10 Rule
- 90% of the time, you stick to nutrient-dense minimally processed foods (such as in The Sleekgeek Food List).
- 10% of the time, you give yourself a bit of flexibility to enjoy some of your favourite foods OR adapt to less than ideal food situations (take special note of this last bit).
This kind of approach still requires a significant amount of commitment and effort, however, it’s generally more realistic and sustainable for most people than aiming to be 100% compliant and “all-or-nothing” with their nutrition.
It’s easy to get bogged down into specifics, such as how many days, or meals, or calories is 90% or 10% of the time?
To be honest, it’s hard to say. This is something that will take some trial and error to figure out for yourself based on your goals and how quickly you find yourself progressing (or not progressing) towards them.
Taking a 90/10 approach is more about intention and lifestyle design than doing mathematical calculations before each meal to figure out what 90% or 10% looks like.
When to apply 90% or 10%
Example scenario 1:
Let’s say you end up at a friend’s house having dinner and they are making something that you don’t consider to be particularly healthy. You don’t have much choice other than to eat it, and joining them for that meal may well be healthier (for your social life, relationship, and overall well-being) than any “damage” a small amount of less healthy food might cause. Our suggestion is to enjoy the meal, eat mindfully, watch your portions, and then do less or no other willing indulgence for that following week or period.
Life is messy and never goes perfectly according to plan. Rather say “screw it” and throw all caution to the wind, control what you can control (portion size, drinking calorie-free beverage like water, declining second helpings or dessert), enjoy the meal, and then adjust your ongoing strategy for other meals and days accordingly.
Of course, if you find yourself in this predicament more often than not or you are finding that your progress is not lining up with your goals then you may need to either revise your expectations or find ways to plan ahead and take better control over less than ideal situations.
Example scenario 2:
Let’s say that your nutrition has been pretty spot on lately and you’re making a decent amount of progress, then you can probably get away with a small indulgence of something from time to time.
Keep in mind that the idea is NOT to reward yourself or to have a cheat meal that undoes your hard earned progress. It’s about acknowledging and accepting the tradeoffs.
Just like how it’s possible to overeat and gain weight on healthy foods, there is also place for a moderate amount of luxurious food in a healthy diet – but with that power comes the responsibility of not overdoing it.
In step 3: Eat With Purpose and Step 4: Eat Slowly and to 80% Full we outline some mindful eating strategies that can be applied to healthy and unhealthy food alike.
Real world problem solving
A woman mentioned to me the other day that applying 90/10 is easier said than done.
And rightly so, she gave me an example where her husband will just decide they are going for pizza on a Sunday and she doesn’t have much of a choice. This is difficult for her to deal with / plan for and it’s derailing her goals.
This is where the concept of having an “always something” mindset as opposed to an “all or nothing” mindset comes into play.
- When you are in the “always something” mindset, it means that no matter the situation, you are always trying to improve something or make the best of something.
- In contrast, an “all or nothing” mindset happens when you think to yourself “This meal isn’t perfect / part of my plan, therefore I’m now off the wagon and might as well indulge completely”. It’s when you go an order a large pizza, gobble it down angrily, feel guilty afterwards, binge on chocolate, and then struggle to get back on track on Monday. It may even snowball into something worse for a couple of days or weeks.
- I’ll order a medium pizza rather than a large.
- I’ll order a pizza that is more veggie and protein based rather than one that is loaded with high-calorie things like avo, extra, cheese, creamed cheese, olives, feta, etc. That way the pizza I eat is a good 200-400 calories lighter than some of the others, and I also get more protein and veg in.
- I’ll order something new. I’ll use it as an opportunity to expand my food choices and food variety. Or I’ll deliberately order something that I won’t like nearly as much as my first choice.
- I’ll order water or a coke zero or a coffee with my pizza – calorie free beverages rather than wine, beer, regular soda, or a cappuccino loaded with calories.
- I’ll eat my pizza very slowly. I’ll use a knife and fork to cut it up one mouth full at a time. I’ll put my utensils down in between bites. I’ll drink multiple glasses of water if needed, I’ll get up half way through to go to the toilet, I’ll talk and be social. Eating slower makes you feel fuller and more satisfied. It can take up to 20 mins for our brain to send out signals telling us we are full. If we eat too quickly then we tend to eat more than we need to.
- I’ll aim to eat to “80% full”. As in, I’ll stop when I am no longer ravenously hungry and before I am completely full or even stuffed. This usually means leaving one or two slices behind. Or I’ll “generously” give some friends / family / (your husband) a slice of my pizza to try and not want any of theirs in exchange.
- If at home, I’ll make a big low-calorie but filling salad to eat along with my pizza. This again makes me eat my pizza slower, fills me up, and usually means I only eat about half a medium pizza.
- If I know ahead of time that we will be eating pizza later that night, I’ll eat less during the day leading up to it. I might even have a protein shake and salad half way right before we go out and then immediately ask the waiter to box half of my pizza for taking away.
- If I have a pizza unexpectedly for lunch, I’ll do as much of the above as possible, and then aim to eat slightly less throughout the rest of the day.
- Exercise always goes well with over eating. I don’t believe in trying to out-exercise or “undo” those extra calories, but when you eat a lot it means you have more energy than normal ready to be used. Put it to good use either that day or the very next day. I get most of my personal records in the gym the day after cheat meal because I have more energy and I’m also more determined to put that energy to good use.
- If this is a REALLY important problem for you to address, you will find a way. Whether it means having a serious talk with your husband as to how he can support your goals or even sitting there drinking your protein shake and eating your salad that you always have ready in case of something like this while watching your husband eat his pizza. I’ve been out plenty of times drinking water and eating a chicken salad while watching my friends and family enjoy pizza and beer. My goals are different to theirs, so of course, I’m going to eat different things to them.